There is no better time to catch up with your distant relatives and friends besides CHINESE NEW YEAR!
最开心的时光莫过于亲朋戚友聚在一起谈笑风生（华人新年除外）…过年的亲戚朋友总是会变得特别“关心”你，你觉得呢？
But fret not! Our comprehensive field guide is here to help. Here are 3 popular CNY “inquisitions”, and the smart ways to answer them.
别担心，我们在这里过几招给你“防身”
Question 1 – “Ah boy/ girl, still single ah?” 经典问题1：”还是单身啊？”
We absolutely hate this one, and we know you do too.
Yes, you’re still single. Or worse, you recently became single, and now have to justify your reasons for not having a significant one.
关注你的终身大事是他们的使命，《是否单身》依然是新年的热门话题问题，不管你喜不喜欢，你至少会被问一次
Solution:
“Auntie, I think you are good in Math. Do you know the expenses comparison between being attached and single? You may do the calculation”
回招：
阿姨，你的数学应该还不赖吧？你应该知道单身和有伴侣的消费差异吧？
Question 2:
Did you gain weight?
你好像肥了hor…
If you’ve been working hard to keep fit and slim, this question will feel like a cold splash of water and is sure to make you lose your appetite.
如果你是正在积极减肥的一群，这也许是你重重的一击。
Solution:
-Smile- Thanks for noticing me so well, I will maintaining my good life.
回招：
“谢谢你的提醒，我会继续幸福下去” -微笑-
Question 3:
What job you working as now? My son/ daughter is…
No doubt, these kind of questions from your relatives about what you are currently doing can make you feel panic or low self-confidence.
Remember stay calm & polite. They are your relatives, after all.
又是另一道“致命”问题，千万别让“专业人士”的爸妈打击了你小小的心灵。即使他们刻意
Solution:
“I see… (speechless)” and Run. Away
回招：
“哦…” 然后完美离场
Got it?
你学会了吧？
